Why is my child not talking yet?

The question is not only how many words the child has. What matters more is whether the child understands. When it follows instructions but cannot get words out, this is about producing speech. When it babbles fluently but does not respond to what you say, this is about understanding it. These are two different things and each leads somewhere else.

Two different pictures

Understands but does not speak

  • Follows instructions correctly
  • Uses gestures and pointing
  • Gets frustrated when not understood
  • Struggles to imitate mouth movements

Speaks but does not understand

  • Babbles fluently and with melody
  • Does not respond to their name
  • Does not look at a named object
  • Has own sounds for ordinary things

In the first case the weakened area is the one that assembles and sends out speech — the child knows what it wants to say and gets stuck only at saying it. In the second case the weakened area is the one that receives speech and makes sense of it — the sound arrives but does not connect to meaning. The exercises differ for each, which is why it is worth knowing which one it is.

When not to wait and to see a professional: when the child has lost words it already had, when it does not respond to loud sounds behind its back, or when it has stopped responding to people. Hearing should always be checked first — without that, nothing else is worth investigating.

How to find out which direction it is

The symptom profile for toddlers covers nine areas including both speech areas and shows which one is weakest. It does not look at speech alone — it also asks about attention, motor skills and hearing, which connect to speech more often than expected.

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