Why doesn't my child turn when I call their name?

The first step is always the same: have hearing checked. Not because it is likely, but because without it everything else is guesswork. If hearing is fine, the second question begins — whether the child fails to respond always and everywhere, or only when absorbed in something else. Those are two different things.

Two different pictures

Absorbed in an activity

  • Turns when doing nothing
  • Responds to its favourite sounds
  • Notices nothing around while playing
  • Otherwise makes eye contact

Sound processing

  • Does not respond reliably even when calm
  • Responds to sounds unpredictably
  • Does not look at a named object
  • Babbles fluently but without understanding

In the first case the child hears and understands; it simply has a narrow beam of attention and cannot switch it — coming closer, touching and only then speaking helps. In the second case the sound arrives but does not connect to meaning; the name is just another sound. That is not disobedience or attention, but speech processing.

What to do first: have hearing checked by a professional, even if it seems the child can hear. If the child has also lost words or skills it already had, or has stopped responding to people, do not wait and book an appointment.

How to find out which case it is

The symptom profile for toddlers covers nine areas including hearing, speech comprehension and attention, and shows which is weakest. Response to a name is exactly where these three get confused, and the questionnaire helps to separate them.

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